If she's asking for your number, regularly hitting you up, and making a point of showing how much you two have in common, there's a relatively decent chance that she's interested. That’s the world we currently live in. After all, the more we like someone, the quicker and more we trust them, even if there’s no practical reason for trust to take place. It would be confusing to me if he didn’t pick up on my social cues and continued to act aloof. She shows me her friends' Facebook posts of their babies and talks as if she is "so far behind," as if … Example: a woman across the club/room initiating eye contact and holds her gaze for a few seconds. 10-16; Does she like you? Thanks for reading our blog: Is she flirting with me or being friendly! Women tend to have a lot of options when it comes to dating, especially when there are beta orbiters lurking everywhere on these women’s social media pages kissing their asses. Hi Andrew. You should return the gesture by giving her more straight-on eye contact when she’s talking. Example: a woman “randomly” stands next to you at an event and starts a conversation about how bad the DJ/presenter/professor is. So the best thing that you can do is determine where she is by following the steps in this blog then making the move. Hi Luke, Is she interested in me do I have a chance. Is she flirting or being friendly? She didn't add me on fb and call me on the phone because I gave her both. My car was in shop she gave me a ride home before I got in the car I said one thing it trust me it was not funny. I would really suggest taking a step back and rethinking this. If he reacts emotionally or gets flustered, then he isn’t that sure of himself. Did she using, playing me? Cause of talk8ng about past relationships is a bad thing. If you're looking for a relationship or someone to be with, I would really suggest dating people who are available. In a busy place like a bar, club or party, a girl will put herself close to you if she’s interested. I don’t mean one selfie and then never does it again. You will feel like she welcomes the conversations with you and she is not judgemental of whatever is going on around you. It should be more about you. This should mean that if she’s constantly giving you a hard time by showing you a negative and/or disrespectful attitude, then she’s not in her feminine frame. No woman is going to ask you whether you’re already in a relationship or not unless she sees a 1% chance of you being a potential mate. Hi Pablo, thank you for taking the time to read Is She Flirting with me or Being Friendly? Instead of directly expressing her interest, she will communicate it covertly and hope you have big enough balls to take over and lead the interaction. Holidays are difficult spent by myself and it's really awkward when everyone else brings a significant other to events / parties and I'm the only one there alone. List off what you're looking for. This is key! Most women still don’t do that, do they? You could see a shift in their tone and a more open and warm body language. She will notice things like you growing out your beard or that you got a haircut and then give you compliments. It’s OK, and this is so important to the process. She did say though that she liked our male supervisor leadership skills. Known woman 2 weeks I barely speak to her. Don’t read this and say, “Well she has mentioned she wanted to travel!” Ok, that’s great if she did, but what other things about a relationship topic have been brought up around you? You have to be able to get a girl on a date and meet up with you, even if she is shy. She will hold eye contact with you because she is interested. Keep this in mind! Recently I told her I am considering looking at jobs in other companies and she responded by saying if I leave then she will have to also as she can't do her job with me (I have 2 other colleagues in my team who can support her role). Dating Coach Shares How to Overcome Neediness, Attachments, and Insecurities! Today we’re sometimes told that we act and think the same way, that if we’re interested in someone, no matter what gender we belong to, we’ll just go and approach them. A woman that is interested in you and is actually flirting will not want to want to talk about other men. * Dear Apollonia; * level 1. If she glances your way or is enjoying the view for any length of time, you can rest assured that she is interested in you. That will either pull people towards you or push them away. She may be interested, she just has to do some detective work. or wats a physical quality ur attracted to? Is she interested in me do I have a chance. Physical contact is a very clear indicator that she is very interested in you. Apollonia. It’s a trait that women have been already choosing for millions of years for survival and mating purposes, so this is something you better be working on if you want a woman who has something to offer.